You are so much more than your physical vessel
So you have put on some weight right now? Accept what it is- acknowledge it and start to live the life of the whole being that you are! You are so much more than that physical vessel.
Why have you put on weight? So often we are judged and the greatest judge of all can be ourselves. Acceptance, belonging and love- feeling it, giving it, feeling it to be able to give it, giving it to receive it- it’s a cycle that all comes back to the way we are feeling ultimately about ourselves.
The biggest love affair you are going to have in this life is with yourself, and once you realize that, you will start to break patterns. One thing that we must remember is that this life is one big up and down roller coaster of lessons, feelings and emotions to bring us to our higher self, a higher self of acceptance, understanding and love of not just ourselves, but of others.
There are many parts to us, however we so heavily focus on the physical- the most tangible basic and insignificant part- but it’s this part that here in this physical existence we focus on, using it as some sort of measure of our worthiness, our ability to be loved and accepted, yet it is the most insignificant part of all- our physical vessel on this very soul filled journey.
When someone has put on weight- it may be a sign of imbalance, there is an aspect of life- whether that be a place, a situation, a person an energy or perhaps even a hormonal imbalance, whatever it is, the key here is Balance.
It is not until we come to learn that we are much more than our physical selves- these vessels we choose. We are right now full of love, we are at this very point- in all our temporary imbalance, full- so full of love understanding and acceptance. I see it, I love it- I know ultimately that this body is not my true self- and this is not all of me, nor is it permanently me- not even my mind is who I really I am- all of these things are tangible insignificants to the greater picture.
Whether or not you are at your slinky and fabulous “preferred” weight, what you have to realise is that right now is all there is- you are perfect. Accept yourself, that yes- there are aspects of your emotions or thoughts that you may not like, that may not sit well with you – but sit with it, feel into it. It may be a history that goes back way beyond your memory- whatever it is- you are amazing, you are growing and becoming the best that you can be.
Right now is the time to accept and move forward, make change- because as soon as you accept and love yourself in all your many and assorted thoughts feelings and emotions, is the moment you truly start to grow. It is the times of discomfort when something is emotionally not comfortable- that is an opportunity to grow.
Do people change? It is a question I use to ask almost every one’s opinion of when I was in my 20’s searching for my own truths.
Yes, people change, we are constantly growing, changing and developing- so trust yourself & continue to trust in others. We are all moving toward that higher ground. We are all changing, and just knowing that every day is a chance to grow, to make huge change, to magically if not cosmically bump into someone new with exactly the message you need is exciting. Life – it is exciting.
